This is the continuation of the previous article:
CAN YOU COUNT ON YOUR FRIENDS ALWAYS ? - PART 1
CAN YOU COUNT ON YOUR FRIENDS ALWAYS ? - PART 2
I know that what I say, sounds very absolute and it will be difficult to accept it by majority of the people. Because in the end most of us have good friends on which we can always "rely on". No matter what you say one things is an absolute fact and that is:
EGO IS NOT LIFE AND EGO CANNOT BE TRUSTED AT ALL
Ego is an illusion created within our mind based on the principle of what is best for me. But even though ego is an illusion we are so convinced that it is real that we reject anything that is REAL because this REAL thing seems from the perspective of ego as false and illusionary. And that means that as long as you operate within the rules and principles of the ego you can have a real friend who will be with you and who will never betray you in his entire life. But as I said in the previous article once you start stopping your participation in the ego then you will see quickly what is happening with your friendship and how strong it is.
Now... there is a one very important point not to be forgotten.
Once you change and you stop participation in your ego you are automatically breaking down the whole construct of friendship which was built on ego between you and your friend. And so you free yourself and automatically you free your friend from it. But then we cannot be really sure that your friend gets free because there comes into play an interesting thing. Your friend may not see that he is "locked" within the ego and the mind and he may perceive your change as betrayal to your friendship. And in this situation he will get angry with you and most probably he will turn into your enemy trying to take revenge on you ( for the betrayal ) and destroy you.
You'll know... this is happening all the time among humans. Instead of using the opportunity to ask questions about why your best friend is changing and you feel left behind and then find a constructive solution, we follow the ego and we fuck it up for ourselves and for the whole world in general.
To be continued